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Monday, March 26, 2012
The Field
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
The Evil Jealousy Web of Facebook Sucks Me In
I am so fucking sick of facebook and the way that it infiltrates my mind and my doings and my comings and goings and the stupid headspace im going to be in for that day and whether or not a feel successful or pretty much a total failure
Dependent on what my classmates from Earlham college are doing a place where the people were completely ahead of me in the game before they even got to college with trust funds cars of their own private schooling and lineage coated in gold leaf a palimpsest of genetic heritage going back generations and me with my crappy public school education and my twenty dollar bill to live on a week
Im not sure I even felt inferior at the time but that’s because I didn’t know any better and they were slumming so as not to make the rest of us feel bad about it I didn’t know I was lower middle class until I found out what some of my classmates had in the bank
I was oblivious to all of this however I was so keenly excited to be in a place where somebody actually cared what I thought and I had a chance for the first time in my life to explore subjects in depth and to be actually challenged, challenged so much for me who had slid by on straight As in Peoria’s bullshit public schools
I can’t believe I even let it get to me let the solidity of jealousy creep in and make me less of a human being it drives me crazy that they seem to be STILL either wildly wealthy or famous or still doing really good extra good things for the poor of the world or just being better than me in multitudinous ways!
The women don’t seem to have kids very much and the men seem to have married women much younger than them oh some things never change thanks for fucking nothing facebook! I’d have never known ANY of that unless I’d decided to go to my reunion which for me doesn’t even apply because I couldn’t stick out the incestuous nature of Earlham’s dating scene you’d sleep with somebody and then they’d sleep with someone else (who you of course knew) and then on and on…ad nauseum
Those east coast kids with their Waldorf and Montessori and Friends school pasts, already eating off the plate of second helpings that they were entitled to by birthright, and then me being mad about it because I wasn’t from that class it is so STUPID it makes me CRAZY to even think about how DUMB I AM BEING when I know that in actuality they tended to be the best people I have ever known the most sincere and conscientious and kind although it’s easier to be all of those things when you never had to worry about your future or being smart or having enough money
Fuck you facebook! Thanks for ruining a nice memory for me! Or thank you for bringing the absolute worst out in my personality! FACECRACK CAN FUCK A DUCK
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Memories of Thinness
After all, dexedrine and benzedrine were still prescribed to "tired" housewives on a regular basis, as were quaaludes, Valium, and even Demerol, all of which are powerful appetite suppressants. Not to mention how much cocaine most of my childhood idols imbibed. My sense that all these people were "naturally" thin was most likely an illusion that the era created by proxy. Betty Ford still drank and popped pills then. Did anybody notice that Americans sort of began to balloon in the 1980s? Not that I'm advocating drug taking for weight control. It's just an interesting coincidence, and perhaps not any coincidence at all. The 70s were, after all, the ten years just before Nancy Reagan's declaration of the "War on Drugs," which occurred right at the time that every major American city was being decimated by the scourge of crack cocaine. Unfortunately, that "war" could never be won--the effects of which can be seen in crack's stranglehold on both urban and rural communities still today.
But I digress. If there is a link between the preternaturally thin masses of the 70s and the rise of the drug culture after the 1960s, it doesn't much explain the previous decades of the 20th century. Of course, before the 1950s, most people in the U.S. had to work very hard for any food that they would be lucky enough to get on their table. The rise of time-saving household appliances, the social welfare programs enacted after the Great Depression, mass-produced food stuffs, and urban migration lessened the American's connection between hard physical labor and food. Ironically, though, until the 1920s, if you had any kind of health problem (from sleeping problems to "digestive ailments") you could go to your local pharmacy and retrieve a sizable amount of cocaine hydrochlorate or tincture of laudanum, both excellent appetite suppressants.
My dream of ideal thinness isn't marred by drug addiction or the influence of a culture of pharmaceuticals. It remains a child's dream, in all ways hopelessly idealized and connected to my sensory impressions and recollections of the late 70s-early 80s. There is always a pool, sparkling & kidney shaped under a bowl of Idaho or Long Beach sky (two places my relatives lived at the time). The water reflects & absorbs that sky, as the hard glare of desert air bounces off my can of Coke (sweetened with cane sugar) and the bag of Clover Club potato chips my brother and I are eating. Hall & Oates and "Betty Davis Eyes," "Abacadabra" waft over the concrete from the transistor radio. We are all tan, feathery, enveloped in striped terry cloth shorts and the puffy iron-ons of our T-shirts. A jet plane intersects the turquoise sky. And no one, not anyone in the picture, is fat.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Vision
I know that while I write this I am being untrue to my vision, because it's a lie to say that my vision has always made me happy. That is one of the great untruths, I think, about vision--that it is always supposed to make you happy. No--sometimes, in fact your vision can make you stay for awhile in your unhappiness, really considering it, turning it over and over like a new-found stone, examining it for flaws, nicks, or even the hint of quartz shining through. That consideration of sorrow is one of the points of vision. It forces you to slow down. You can't just pass through the stages of life when you have to express every detail of it through your vision--every tear becomes a desolate note played in discord, every cry to whatever a god may be becomes a brush stroke on the canvas, every day spent waiting for change becomes another touch to your child's face or the loving embrace you give them every morning.
My vision has been writing for a long time, but hasn't always been--although it's always been part of my life, since I was old enough to write. I always painted, and sang, and played guitar, but by college writing for me had emerged as my preeminent form of expression, and I knew at that time that I would work my vision through words. Why? Some people develop that real mode of expression through the musical instrument, through their bodies in dance, through the fluidity of the paint, through the wood they hew and form together into the peaceful eaves. The mode doesn't matter--only that you have the vision.
Every little girl needs a vision encouraged in them early in life, and every little boy does too. Everyone needs something they love that is not a person--something not rooted in flesh, that cannot die or disappoint. The vision that causes an electric surge of energy to flow from the brain to the fingers to the external world. This is the conduit of the internal sea to the outside, to the material world. The outside world is where autonomous things exist and where they are perceived, categorized, and translated back into the heteronymous nature of the human mind. That the sky can be "blue" is relative to how each individual perceives "blue." That is the relationship between the internalized vision and the literal vision of sensory perception.
But back to the purpose of vision, which is to transport, to transfer the worry of the everyday into something that makes that worry bearable. The purpose of vision is to sustain. When pain becomes unbearable or the problems of life are a sea of darkness, your vision is what keeps you getting up every day. That's what people must mean by faith, although I've never been religious. But vision is the same thing. It keeps you getting up, loving the sun, thankful to be alive & allowed to even have a vision. Because if you can believe in your vision, everything else will become a part of that belief. The sustenance that your vision provides sees you through the longest day, the interminable night.
For we can connect to each to each other through the extension of language, through our fingertips, through our voices, our touch, our love. But without connection, we are still whole, because we have seen the light come after dark and are therefore autonomous. Both modes are we--heteronymous is what connects us to each other and the earth, and to things that are eternal. Your vision will lead you into worlds just being born, and to where worlds are erased. It's your reward for being human, and for being alive.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Cornchippers and Punkrockers in Peoria...a commemoration
The curious (and uniquely Peorian) term is generally agreed upon to have its roots at East Peoria high school, somewhere in the Stepe brother era (early 80s). I don’t know exactly how the absurdist term caught on with the jocks and stoners, but I do know that by 1987 it was being jockeyed around the playground at Calvin Coolidge, where I spent one miserable year. All of a sudden, if you listened to New Wave (or in my case the Stray Cats) and wore a lot of black (or in my case huge Herman Munster-like Creepers that I saved all summer to mail order from London), people followed you home from school screaming “CORN CHIP!!!! CORN CHIP!!!!” It was as perplexing as it was irritating. I mean, I could’ve understood “FREAK” or “HEY WEIRDO,” etc., but cornchip???? Suffice it to say, if you were in any way different, or weird—and you didn’t care for the garbage being churned out by KZ-93 at the time—you were most definitely a cornchip. And, relentlessly, the school bullies made sure you paid dearly for your difference.
All nostalgia aside, the 1980s were lame. Maybe they seem cool now—because the project of nostalgia is to distract you from the greatness of the present moment—but at the time they sucked. Reagan wouldn’t leave the White House, and his wife had launched the laughable “War on Drugs,” which, if anything, only seemed to fuel the ever-ballooning crack epidemic. Until at least 1985, I lived in daily fear that the U.S.S.R. (remember that acronym???) would nuke the U.S. to smithereens, that The Day After (whoever made that TV movie has it coming) was sure to happen any moment that Khrushchev or Andropov got a bad bowl of borscht. I admit I was excited when Thriller came out, even more so by Madonna’s first two records, but they were quickly eclipsed by Bon Jovi’s overthrow of the radio waves. Bon Jovi was solely responsible for my deepening immersion in the Clash. Spandex and hair metal??? I thought that had all gone the way of Thin Lizzy. As it turned out, I couldn’t have been more wrong. (Hair metal never really went away, and it never will, I’m sure).
Peoria, unexpectedly, was rife for a youth revolution. Working-class, perched on an industrialized river and suffering from a bad case of identity crisis due to its seedy, whiskey-producing history, in retrospect it was the perfect town for a punk rising. Although in the mid to late 80s it seemed anything but to us. If only we could Get Out!!! If only we could Make Them See!!! (because there’s always a “they” in adolescence, isn’t there?) We were too young and unwise to appreciate the goldmine we had on our hands. Part of that had to do with the fact that it was always difficult to see “our” music live.
To see live music at that point in Peoria you basically had to be willing to put it on yourself. If you weren’t going to be solely responsible, you were going to have to go to every stinkin VFW show (even if you didn’t like the bands playing), because without the 3 or 4 bucks they were charging at the door, the next show wouldn’t happen. This sucked at the time, but it made us more creative people than we would’ve been if we would’ve grown up in Chicago and been able to see a great band at the Metro every night of the week. Despite the fact there were a lot of fights at Peoria shows—there were almost always fights, a phenomenon which if you weren’t actively being attacked made the whole scene take on a carnivalesque demeanor—we had a lot going for us, us cornchips. If there wasn’t a show happening, we called up a VFW or American Legion hall, pooled our resources from our crappy part time jobs, hired the hall & made it happen. Things were harder to get, yet easier to achieve, since if you didn’t do it nobody was going to do it for you. I saw Leviathan play once in a barn in utter darkness, in the pouring rain. That do-it-yourself spirit was the most significant, and most enduring, facet of the cornchips and punkrockers of Peoria. There’s no time in life to wait around for something to happen. That “stick together” philosophy also explains why we had shows were there would be a folk band, a goth band, a metal band, and a Jim Morrison impersonator all on the same bill. We couldn’t afford to be picky about genre.
The teenage years create a kind of hyper-reality, a heightened state of existence where everything in your life seems to hang on one night seeing Dollface or Sub 13 or on one phone call (which, in the pre-cell phone era, you might hang around all night at your house waiting for), or if your parents might be kind and decide to let you go to Thrills. Tomorrow? Tomorrow be damned. What mattered was TONIGHT, tonight and your new Descendents of Joy Division or Bauhuas t-shirt and the pocketful of rush you picked up from Playmate Video (which, coincidentally, had the area’s only copies of Suburbia and Decline of Western Civilization and Thrashin’, not to mention all the John Waters’ films). You were on your way to break bottles at the Flumes, to a party at The Barn, exorcise a soul at the Witches’ Circle in Springdale Cemetery, to see Naked Raygun at ICC or G.G. Allin in the piss stained basement of Co-Op Records. There were cigs to be smoked, houses to be TP’d, children to scare at Northwoods Mall, curbs to grind at Fulton Plaza. Possibility hung in the air like so many molecules of youth, each one split and dispersed in every passing moment. Tomorrow be damned, but in a way, it was already happening. If only we’d known that at the time.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
7th and C
Hurry let me slide
out of the doorway
onto the street
although the threshold
is ancient
so flat that inside
and outside
are the same
Sharp sharp lines
of the night shot
in a hole
hurry hurry must breathe
again must make whole
again
Darkness dusts
my shoulder
a crow’s wing
and the pigeon’s breath
Hide in the shadows
that run crevassed
against the light
the crumbled ruins
of industry
shouldering rock
that once housed
hardtoiling and earnest
ancestors
While we toil
into memory
the idea
that we can escape
through the white light
up and up
darkness surrounds us
blankets the memories
disassembles our sight
The burnt out corner
of a lifetime spent
searching
Thursday, August 20, 2009
übertragung
isn’t the one you’ll have in twenty years.
No, it won’t be a transplant. Or futuristic DNA
meddling. Or an augmentation. (Apologies
to the surgeons). It’s that your brain
was borne to you a membrane. It will grow,
and grow, and outgrow you. It will grow over
the wall of your garden.
Your neighbors will be pissed.
Some things you just know. Those things
you find beautiful. The back of your five
year old’s neck. The feeling of the first taste
of a Coca Cola, when the bubbles go up
your nose. Sweat. The determined sun rising,
even though it happens day, after day, after day.
Kant called it übertragung. Thinking
without concepts. Transfer. Transmission.
As the dark horizon is replaced by the splinters
of dawn, as the idea of love overcomes its physical
unreality, as the green of the trees is replaced
by the chlorophyll in your science textbook.
It all existed before we discovered it.
We only try to siphon it off, to feed
ourselves. The food of life is in ideas.
You know what I know and we know it together.
The things you find beautiful may change,
or they may not. Most likely, they will grow
in number. Things you never noticed before.
The aesthetic is in your heart. You divide
and recreate each beautiful compartment, each symbol
of your essence. Every time you breathe,
your mind drinks the world. Every time,
it opens a new door. Every time, you are
delivered.